Lincoln, RI
A 21-year-old female asked:
My 3 year old does not want to listen. when i try to talk to him he covers his ears. i have to repeat my self about 10 times to get him to understand.
2 doctor answers • 3 doctors weighed in
Dr. Robert Killiananswered
General Practice 29 years experience
Change your Speech: This common problem will not be solved in frustration, yelling, or in any way that would appear like a battle to your toddler. Perhaps changing or softening the way you speak. Acting as if his 'tantrum' is not bothering you; speaking softly with a pleasant face and voice so that if he wants to know what you say he has to uncover his ears. There are no winners when war stances arise in parenting.
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Dr. Johanna Frickeanswered
Pediatrics - Developmental and Behavioral 51 years experience
Increase pleasant : interactions; talk with him, not at him. While you're both calm, briefly state the behaviors you want, the rewards for compliance & consequences for non-compliance, at his language level. Follow through immediately. Walk him to time-out from behind; don't talk, make eye contact or look angry. Repeat till he stays put, set timer for 3 min. Walk him out of time from behind. Don't lecture or scold.
4k viewsAnswered >2 years ago
Last updated Jun 11, 2014
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