I have what looks like an abscess in between my pinky toe whole toe is swollen very painful skin is white colored hurts to the touch.

You should: Go to the er right away. If it is an abscess, it will need to drain and you will need antibiotics. Expeditious treatment is important to prevent further harm, like osteomyelitis.

Soft corn: These problems often times are a response of the skin getting in between the bones of the toes and the friction injures the skin. See a podiatrist to check for more serious problems like ulcerations and infections.

Go see a doctor: Without examining this it would be inappropriate to arrive at a conclusion, but the symptoms sound fairly severe and it would be helpful to get a professional opinion.