Why does some docs say asymetrical tonsils is normal and some say they aren't. my ent says he sees them frequently. why is it bad? er docs said same.

Different sizes.: To some degree asymmetrical tonsils are normal. just like one hand may be larger or one leg longer. On the other hand, if one is larger because of a disease state (infection, cancer...), then treatment is indicated. Like most findings in medicine, the significance depends on the background. A full medical history and physical exam are needed to make the correct diagnosis.