I've been having excruciating pain & pressure in my ears for quite some time. i've been to several doctors, ent's, and an oral surgeon to rule out tm?

Ear pain: It's not all in your head but mind-body techniques can help greatly to manage pain. Please continue to see your doctor but also add things such as clinical hypnosis (www.asch.net) or biofeedback. Peace and good health.

Is it TMJ syndrome?: It could be as simple as blocked eustachian tubes. What happened? I wander why you did not get any satisfaction after you have been several doctors, ENT's , oral surgeon, etc. I need some history from you for me to make a further comment.