Am going for 2 dental implants real soon. two other teeth now need extraction. i feel so very sorry for myself in this bad situation. way out?

Unclear question: Way out? You'll need to be more specific. Regarding losing your teeth, I would agree that it is life changing. The question remains: why do you have such advanced periodontal problems at your age? Specific medical issues? Neglect? Either way you'll have to deal with the road ahead. Pick your dental team wisely and your smile will be rebuilt.

See specialist: Before proceeding see the Prosthodontist for evaluation. They are the specialists in replacement/rebuilding of missing /broken down teeth. You may have options and need to know them all before starting your implants. Strategically placed and expertly restored implants are superb. Take solace in knowing you are not restricted to dentures for life. Let the team help you. Good Luck.

Another Option: is to take part in a dental implant clinic/program held at a local dental school. Implants typically last a lifetime, call for appointment.