Should my husband and i attempt in-vitro since i haven't come up pregnant since i had an operation to remove an ectopic pregnancy i had an ectopic pregnancy along with a blood cyst on my ovary/ovaries ( not sure ) and i had an operation to remove the preg

Honestly : Honestly a consult with an infertility specialist to go over your options would be the smart thing to do. Before ivf is tried there are other options like IUI (intrauterine insemination) which i like to refer to as the "turkey baster method". This is less invasive than ivf and may be more financially feasible. All the best.

See the answer: First speak to a fertility specialist near you.Let them evaluate you and your husband, this waythe specialist can advise you more accurately. Good luck from nyc.