I am a gifted adult and i have adhd. i'm socially withdrawn and i work from home. where can i meet people like myself ?

Join the club: You describe a common situation these days. Social "skills" are not really necessary and are often misused. Appropriate behavior is more important. Your question already answers itself. The internet will be the best method for meeting others like yourself. The "diagnosis" of adhd is of no real value or importance. Your self assurance and self confidence is more important.