A member asked:

How do u know you made the right decision? i moved. i just dont know if its the right decision. i don't want to base a discussion off of others or false hopes. but.also.follow my.gutz i hope is right

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Change is tough!: Often, there isn't ONE right decision. Rather, there may be several good decisions - each with their own pluses and minuses. I think it's helpful to make a list of the pros and cons of major decisions. See which factors are most important to you, and then give your "gut level" a lot of weight. Remember, even if you find that you aren't happy with the decision you made, you CAN make a new one!

Answered 12/15/2014

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Dr. James Okamoto answered

Specializes in Family Medicine

Time will tell: Moving can be very stressful! It's not really a medical question, & there is no right or wrong, only good or bad, and only time will tell if it was a good or bad decision! There is a saying - "grow where you're planted". Meaning,wherever you find yourself, make the most of it! If it doesn't work out, you can always move again! If you don't follow your gut, you may regret that u didn't try.

Answered 12/15/2014

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Stay positive: If you make a decision that clearly causes harm then that could be considered a "wrong" decision. In life many decisions are not that clear cut. It is hard to know if you made a "right " decision. For most of us the best we can do is make a decision, treat it like it was the right decision and make the best of what we have. Stay positive, do your best, follow your gut. Trust yourself.

Answered 9/28/2016

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