Can you tell me how i could convince my mom to get me tested for adhd/add?

Talking with family: When health issues come up in the family, it's always good to talk it through. Finding the right conditions to talk about something difficult should be thought out beforehand. If you have a problem communicating with your mother, then try to think of ways to get her 'on board' with what you have to say. Doctors are here to help, but they can't do anything if they're sitting on the sidelines.