I have a median lobe not bph in my prostate, pushing into my bladder.dr says they can shave it, but probably would have permanent ed from it?opinions?

Seek a 2nd opinion: I suggest you seek another opinion from a board certified urologist. There's no hurry here, and you want to be confident in your medical choices. Good luck.

Here are some ...: A prominent median lobe is a form of BPH, which may act as a ball-valve to impede urine flow especially at the end of urination. Removing it may help improve urine flow but expectantly results in retrograde ejaculation in some, and your erectile ability will retain. Remember a surgeon is just like a landscaper who will use his knowledge, skill, common sense, & wisdom to get job done... Ask Doc ...