I had a cold sore and the area is still red and sore has a tiny dot but scab fell off i licked my finger and touched my vagina am i at risk of genital herpes im having an anxiety attack?

People with herpes more than a few months cannot transmit the infection to new body areas; the immune system prevents it. People with oral herpes never are at risk for infecting their own genital area. Don't worry about it.

Cold sore or herpes labialis is caused by HSV1 . So unless you inserted your finger or rubbed hard - the chances are extremely low