A member asked:

Sir, i like a married aunty.i want to make love with her, but she is not interested in me.sir how can i control my feelings about her?

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Be a man: You're almost grown up -- a time to be proud of what you've accomplished. You list "masturbation" as a problem, but it's actually a great way to keep yourself from doing something in real life that you'll regret, as well as learning about your mind and body. If you're obsessed with an individual, please get a short course of therapy. Best cure -- there's a wonderful girl who wants you -- find her.

Answered 12/10/2013

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Dr. Pamela Pappas answered

Specializes in Psychiatry

Find other pursuits: Distraction may be the best solution since this woman is married and does not have romantic/sexual interest in you. Stay away from her, or at least times alone with her. Exercise a lot! you could also seek out other social/dating opportunities in order to find someone who is available to you in this way. Then a relationship can proceed naturally -- sex when and if both desire it.

Answered 9/28/2016

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