Should i just stop bulking and taking the mass gainer and instead try to get cut?

Great idea: It's hard to gain muscle mass while you're losing bodyfat, especially if (like most gym types) you don't enjoy the aerobic exercise as much as the lifting. Most women prefer a lean, trim man to a man with a great deal of muscle. Your best is to find a variety of fitness activities that you enjoy, stop buying "mass gainers" and eat sensibly, and watch your body evolve into something really nice.