I have to pee every 5 minutes i'm in the middle of menopause and nobody can figure out what it is its not vaginitis i have no symptoms of that help?

You most likely: Estrogen deficiency of the vagina and the lower 1/3 of the bladder and urethra are also estrogen dependent, assuming u do not have a bladder or urethra infection, so please see your gyn for an exam and for vaginal estrogen therapy, you may also have urge incontinence or irritable bladder and u may have interstital cystitis so your gyn can refer u to a urogynecologist or a urologist.