My head pains so much to touch on the right there is a spot which is soft and painful to touch pain comes and goes...most times comes in the same spot?

Jambo! This may be an infection. The scalp is the skin and tissue covering the skull bones and contains many blood vessels, nerves, and hair follicles. Another possible cause of a painful spot on the head is a muscle spasm or trigger point, or a nerve problem or a vascular problem or bone structural issue. Please seek medical advice close by. Kwaheri!