Mom had 2 mini strokes 6/7 months ago. she sits on the couch all day since. she says she is waiting for her pain to stop to do exercise but its been several months now. i try to push her to do something. should i just let her be or keep pushing her?

Your mother will definitely benefit from an assessment by her doc. She needs a thorough evaluation and goals of care discussion. Multiple conditions may contribute to her current symptoms and a thorough assessment should help in clarifying. Pushing her to do things may not work at all, she needs a comprehensive plan based on her performance status and wishes.

It is likely that your mother is depressed and that needs to be addressed. She may need medication to lift her mood and get the initiative to exercise. Try to arrange a visit with a physician, even a virtual visit would be helpful. Wish you and your mother good health!