Hi, i am 25 year old women and have 2 kids and i am struggling to lose weight i have cut out my starch and i am exercising 3 to 4 times a week also?

Its what you eat: The exercise is a good thing to burn calories, but to lose fat and build muscle you need to restrict carbs in a meaningful way while increasing unsaturated fats and protein to replace the carbs taken away. I suggest you spend a boit of time with a registered dietician and plan your meals to do this, don't need to go full Keto to achieve optimal fat burning, but it is a goal you can think about