My daughter has sores on her tongue with whitish stuff. her gums also look inflamed the ones at the top and top teeth have completely rotted or it seems. she is 3years old?

Rotting Teeth: There is absolutely no reason your child should have severely decayed teeth at her age, unless of course you let her go to sleep with a bottle of milk or juice, and/or you do not brush her teeth for her. It is imperative that you take charge and bring her to a pediatric dentist for evaluation and treatment. Your daughter is counting on you to take care of her.

Infection: Your daughter has untreated infections. She should have been under the care of a Pedodontist, a Pediatric Dentsl Specialist, since her first baby tooth erupted. There are so many reasons why this has occurred, but the main one is neglect. Get her help immediately. The infections, spreading through har body, are doing immeasurable harm.