Can you normally feel lymph nodes in your groin? i can feel it on both sides but one side feels larger than the other. im not sick and have no infection of any sort. easily moveable, not painful or warm/red.

Depends on size: Groin lumps (either male or female) can be caused by infected lymph nodes, enlarged non-infected lymph nodes, skin cysts, abscesses in the skin, etc... A bigger lump might even be a hernia. One's primary care doctor can evaluate to see what it might be, and offer advice on treatment or testing. That said, normal people generally have small nodes (smaller than a dime) in their groins.