A member asked:

Bonjour. my brother live at my place for 5 months. he won't improve his life nor find a job until he find love. what hat to do to help him with this?

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AnythingForLove?Not!: Like him being there?If he shares the rent, food and utilities then tell him he may be there for a while. If he doesn't contribute then give him 4-6 weeks to find another place to live.In the meantime he might read"Love's Executioner"by Irvin Yalom.Ask him why he's putting his life on hold.Is he capable of loving or is this just an excuse to be a slacker?Or,Tell him you love him, then kick him out

Answered 2/22/2015

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