Please suggest some do's and don'ts to keep in mind when wanting to improv relationships.

Don't: Don't worry about small things. Don't prioritize your list, just list priorities.

Seek: Seek help or counseling or coaching or mentoring to help with relationship at work and home.

Regular: Regular 1:1 time daily with each child helps maintain your relationship.

Listen: Listen to your partner and let him/her know you understand his/her point of view.

Arguing: Arguing does not destroy relationships. Not solving the problem hurts relationships.

Praise: Praise what you like. Be less critical of what you don't.

Most: Most people are happy when questions are asked about themselves, so they can express feelings.

When: When you are wrong, admit it. When you are right, you shut up. When neither one works, ask a friend.

Chosing: Choosing your battles is always important. Sometimes, it's better to get along than to be "right.".

Honesty: Honesty is the best policy. Also, conduct yourself knowing that you will have to be honest later.

Smile: Smile regularly. Don't obsess on negative feelings. Cheer up other people with compliments.

After: After divorce, realize that you need a good 9-12 months to heal your heart before you date again.

Smile: Smile, laugh and share jokes more often. Have a sweet breath. Be passionate about your passions.

DON'T: Don't assume that you know what the other person means. When unsure, ask for clarification.

Sometimes: Sometimes the best thing you can say to someone is nothing - just be there for them.

Always: Always be ready to listen to their problems, and stop talking about yours.

Talking: Talking doesn't always help. It even hurts! you have to speak the right words, to the right person.

Have: Have the "tough" conversations about end of life issues; don't let your family guess what you want.

"I: "i have no idea how you might be feeling" can be more supportive than "i know exactly how you feel.".

Praise: Praise goes further than you realize! show appreciation of those you care about. Couch criticisms!

Always: Always be considerate of the other person and treat them with respect.

When: When one declines to make eye contact in america, it may be interpreted as passive – aggression.

Blinking: Blinking your eyes frequently when engaged in dialog can cause the other party to feel uncomfortable.

Rolling: Rolling one’s eyes (especially with a smirk) is usually seen as disrespectfull.

A: A limp handshake may be interpreted as submissiveness or aversion to touch.

An: An overly powerful handshake may be interpreted as an attempt to dominate (or even to intimidate).

Dialoging: Dialogung with hands in pockets or behind the back may be interpreted as conveying dishonesty.

Sincere?: Sincere? Insincere? When you smile, your whole face smiles (not just your mouth).

When: When you smile at someone, you are most likely to get a smile back.

When: When we smile at each other, we release endorphins in the brain that make us feel good.

Dr.: Dr. Laura says: "choose wisely and treat kindly." that's good advice for any relationship!

You: You can't make people like you, but you can aim to earn their respect.

Having: Having a baby won't help! many think that 'having a baby' will strengthen a relationship. It won't!

Treat: Treat your partner/spouse as well as you treat a kind stranger! it will work wonders.

Don't: Don't be critical: make suggestions, but don't be mean/harsh/crabby.

Tell: Tell your wife you appreciate her - often, sincerely & even for small stuff.

Often: Often when your wife talks to you about problems, she wants you to listen - not to fix it.

Discuss: Discuss your problems with your partner, don't just stew about it.

Fighting: Fighting dirty hurts relationships. Arguing in a fair and non-hurtful manner can be beneficial.

All: Myth: all women love getting flowers. Not so. Ask your partner what makes her feel loved & happy.

Integrity: Integrity is one of your most important & unique definers. Don't lose it or let others take it away.

Don't: Don't judge others so harshly. Give them some slack and you'll never be disappointed!

Say: Say yes dear to avoid arguments if you think you're wrong, you admit it.If you're right you shut up.

People: People & relationships mature. If the relationship is worth keeping, stay flexible/go with the flow.

Share: Share humor. The morning cartoons are a good way to start the day!

As: As henry winkler (aka "the fonz") once said, "assumptions are the termites of relationships.".

DON'T: Don't allow familiarity to breed contempt.

Sometimes: Sometimes the person who says sorry first needs to be the person who can, not the one who was wrong.

True: True emotional intimacy makes us vulnerable to one another, allowing them to see us as we are - flawed.

Before: Before electing to be "gut level" honest, consider if the delivery will harm another.

Possessiveness: Possessiveness stifles & strangles a relationship & doesn't allow it to grow.

When: When your relationship is filled with passion that causes pain, it is likely an addiction, not love.

Girls: Girls are often attracted to & hurt by"bad boys". Learn to be open to the nice guy who respects you.

Are: Are you burned by men in relationships? Than you need to learn to make different choices!

DON'T: Don't make assumptions, ask the person what they are thinking & feeling. Your guess may be wrong.

DON'T: Don't always have to be right. Don't always have to have the last say in an argument.

DON'T: Don't argue over small stuff, let it go. Do argue respectfully about the stuff that really matters.

If: If you constantly debate issues, you will exhaust the other person.

Healthy: Healthy relationships increase your energy most of the time. They don't consistently deplete you.

Healthy: Healthy relationships involve mutual give & take. Not just give & not just take.

If: If you are only willing to show the other person what is "good" about you, that is not intimacy.

Don't: Don't just say you love some one. Show that you love them.

Myth-: Myth- friendship should be forever. Learn to let go & move on when you outgrow a relationship.

Getting: Getting married doesn't mean "i'll live happily ever after." it takes work.

If: If he loves me, he'll know what i want. If you want him to know what you want, communicate!

If: Myth: "if he loves me, he will stop drinking." do not confuse addiction and love.

Love: Love means offering her the bigger piece of pie.

TIME: Time outs aren't just for kids. Learn to use time outs before arguments become hurtful.

Want: Want to communicate well with others? Try dialoging instead of making it a monolog.

If: If you respect yourself - other people are more likely to respect you too.

Always: Always a "yes person"? Try saying "no" when meant. You will respect yourself more & so will others.

Spouses-: Spouses: remember that appreciation is always appreciated. Don't forget to say thank you.

It: It may be a warning signal if your partner refuses to go to couples' counseling. Go by yourself!

Is: Is your partner jealous and controlling? Watching every move? Time for some counseling!

Ask: Ask questions and listen to the responses. Treat others as you would like to be treated.

COMMUNICATION,: Communication, romance, and humor are keys to a long-lasting relationship—but there are no guarantees!

Be: Be genuine, be yourself. Phonies may get their foot in the door, but seldom get much further.

Regarding: Regarding "what i can do to improve relationships"; make an effort towards concern of others.

Maintain: Maintain social and outside contacts of all kinds throughout your life.

Always: Always listen respectfully to your partner's point of view, even if you don't agree.

Do: Do get out of the house together--new experiences together builds bonds.

Instead: Instead of reacting when you are upset, stop, take a few slow breaths, then choose how to respond.

Don't: Don't try to change other person into what you think he/she should be.

Do: Do talk to your kids about their interests-try to keep an open mind.

Make: Make present moment observations instead of past-laden evaluations.

Both: Both spouses should have knowledge of the family's finances.

It's: It's never acceptable to be in a relationship where your spouse hits, kicks or slaps you.

Always: Always introduce a difficult topic with a caring compliment to your partner.

Get: Get involved with your significant other's goals, show them you care about what they care about!

Occassionaly: Occassionaly we all have conflict, strong relationships form safe ways to address it, not avoid it.

Try: Try to learn emotional cues of those closest to you, some feelings are hard to express in words.

Recognize: Recognize when you are having a bad day and try to relax before you take it out on someone else.

Be: Be open to change. We all have faults, recognizing our own can make us easier to live with.

Sharing: Sharing decision making power with others lets them know you value their opinions.

Listening: Listening is very important. Practice reflecting back what you hear.

Don't: Don't rely on just one person to manage the family's finances. Both partners should be involved.

Discover: Discover the secret to true love by starting to become your own best friend.

Don't: Don't try to change the other person. Recognize where they are coming from and work on yourself.

Counseling: Counseling is great, but if your counselor is not a good fit then try someone else.

If: If you don't like something about someone who you value, state the good, then what annoys you.

Resist: Resist the urge to shower your grandchildren with "surprise" presents; always ask the parents first.

Be: Be a good listener; don't monopolize conversations.

Regular: Regular individual time with your child is invaluable -try a minimum of 20min/day.

Do: Do not expect others to be like you and it will make it easier to accept them for what they are.

In: In relating to others, always remember where you came from; and understand where they're coming from.

True: True compassion is all tied up with learning the art of listening.

Some: Some ideas/behaviors are not worth fighting about. Ignore them and let them go.

Most: Most people (not all) are mostly good; if the relationship is worth it to you, remember the good.

The: The relationship is always more important than one particular aspect of it; preserve the good.

Respect: Respect and validate others' feelings-you don't have to agree to show respect.

It: It takes years to build a relationship of trust and respect; it can take a minute to ruin it.

The: The brain, left to it's own devices, is tricky. Learn to listen to your mind and feelings.

Get: Get plenty of sleep. Many children and adults are sleep-deprived which can lead to irritability.

If: If you tend to say or do things impulsively, count to 10 before commenting....Or sleep on it.

Learn: Learn to listen. Don't think you can change another person!

Toxic: Toxic thoughts kill love, so don't be negative about every thing that transpires between you & him/her.

Couples: Couples therapists or marriage and family counselors can provide new perspective. Others can help!

If: If your relationship is chronically unhappy, seek counseling.

If: If there are serious persistent communication issues, seek a family therapist.

Allot: Allot time with loved ones; listen at least as much as you talk; try counseling if it matters.

The: The five most essential words for a healthy, vital relationship: "i apologize" and "you are right.".

Some: Some really good advice my mother gave me was "go! you might meet somebody!".

Be: Be nice to your friends! you never know when you are going to need them to hold your hand!

Being: Being happy doesn't mean everything's perfect, it just means you're looking beyond the imperfections.

With: With your kids: notice them, smile a lot, acknowledge them, and remember their birthdays!

With: With your kids: ask them about themselves, look in their eyes when you talk to them, and listen!

With: With your kids: seek them out, play with them, giggle with them, read aloud together, & say yes alot.

With: With your kids: forget your worries sometimes and concentrate only on them.

With: With your kids: surprise them, play outside together, and then invite them to get a smoothie!

With: With your kids: present options when they seek your counsel and give them space when they need it.

With: With your kids: follow them when they lead, delight in their discoveries, share in their excitement!

With: With your kids: contribute to their collections, discuss their dreams & nightmares, and be relaxed.

With: With your kids: show up at their games, concerts, and events; and tell them how terrific they are!

With: With your kids: keep the promises you make and apologize when you've done something wrong.

With: With your kids: wave and smile when you part, and always kiss them goodnight!

With: With your kids: give them lots of compliments, and tell them what you like about them.

With: With your kids: ask for their opinion, have fun together, and be curious with them.

With: With your kids: buy books and clip magazine articles or pictures that you know interest them.

With: With your kids: give them good choices, respect the choices they make, and become their advocate.

Be: Be understanding with positive attitude of your friends & family. Treat them like you like be treated.

Dont: Dont criticize, suggest! show kindness & love at all times. Stay away from toxic thoughts: kills love.

To: To handle yourself, use your head. To handle others, use your heart.

The: The best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other.

"If: "if you keep doing what you've always done you're gonna get what you've always gotten!".

If: If your mate asks you to get her a sweater don't tell her it's hot. Get her a sweater!

When: When your teen says you don't understand her/him get her/him to act out for you what s/he's hearing!

When: When people try to cut you down (and they'll certainly try!) don't let 'em. Stand tall!

When: When others try to cut you down (& there are many who'll try!) don't let 'em, stand tall!

Listen,: Listen, listen, listen! don't talk about yourself too much!

Allow: Allow loved ones some privacy. Forcing answers can hurt and may lead to lies, anger & resentment.

Good: Good sex does not equate with a healthy relationship, or for that matter, a meaningful one!

It: It is not fair to hold low iq against someone but laziness - that is a whole other matter.

If: If you see a young mother struggling with her kids - forget the snear, help her out.

Although: Although we all have opinions, the wise person is discriminant about when to share it.

Saying: Saying you are sorry can diminish rage, soothe hurt feelings & help to repair relationships.

IMPROVE: Improve your relationships by not always having to have the last word.

Don't: Don't expect lots of kodak moments in relationships but treasure all the ones that come your way.

Do: Do you see yourself as a shrew? Do others see you as a shrew? You can change that.

IF: If you don't like who you've become - you can do something about that.

It's: It's ok to end friendships that you have grown out of or which no longer enrich your life.

1: 1 way to show you love & want to be with your mate for a long time, is to take care of your health.

LOTS: Lots of breakups & make ups may represent passion (vice love).

Show: Show your wife you love her by putting down the toilet seat after you go.

NEVER: Never become so complacent in your marriage that you think you don't have to flush!

One: One way to show your husband that you love him - is by not using his razor to shave your legs.

If: If you lack the willingness to forgive, be prepared to become a bitter person.

SPEAKING: Speaking with a quiet voice is an option even if you are angry.

One: One of the greatest gifts you can give a friend is listening.

NEVER,: Never, never, ever tell your wife she is fat when she is pregnant!

If: If your daughter asks if she is pretty. Please don't just tell her that she is "pretty inside".

Stay: Stay away from people who are consistently toxic (if you want to stay happy).

If: If someone is trying as hard as they can, even if the product is imperfect- appreciate the effort.

Try: Try not to say bad things about your in-laws (no matter how awful they are).

If: If I am doing the task poorly - please offer to teach me to do it better (versus putting me down).

Check: Check out the left fourth finger (in the us) - before you get too hard a crush on someone.

Need: Need to say something that is difficult or awkward? Try practicing in the mirror or with a friend.

Please: Please remember that it is not your spouse's responsibility to make you happy or to keep you happy.

Want: Want a challenge? Find a novel way to let your partner know you love them.

Compliment: Compliment your child's creativity. He doesn't have to color inside the lines to make beautiful art.

Praise: Praise shapes your child's behavior more than punishment.

If: If you need something - please speak up. Don't expect your mate to read your mind.

Accepting: Accepting a gift graciously is as important as giving a gift.

Say: Say thank you if someone gives you a gift (even if you don't particularly like it).

Please: Please don't put down another person's religion (no matter what kind of biases you carry).

Please: Please try not to judge the family that has special needs children. Try to help them.

"If: "if your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more, & become more, you are a leader.".

Honesty: Honesty is telling someone what they need to hear instead of what they want to hear.

Don't: Don't confuse sex with intimacy.

Just: Just because a child behaves badly doesn't make it any more acceptable for a parent to behave badly.

Showing: Showing appreciation is important for a healthy marriage.

Tell: Tell your child that you love him. But tell him what you love about him too.

Make: Make sure that each of your children know how incredibly precious they are to you.

If: If you really dislike someone, there is a good chance it is mutual.

While: While you can't like everyone, try to tolerate everyone. Your mind will be healthier!

When: When you are in the car with the kids, turn off the radio & cellphones. Use the time to talk.

Breathing: Breathe deeply before disagreeing with someone. Take a breath. One breath can save you.

“Some: “some people come in our life as blessings. Others come in our life as lessons.” mother teresa.

If: If you love me, please don't keep it to yourself.

Don't: Don't miss opportunities to tell the people in your life that you love them.

"Forgiveness: "forgiveness is an act of self-love and respect." don miguel ruiz.

"The: "the key to forgiveness is to forgive from the heart - not from the mind." sheri rosenthal.

"Forgiveness: "forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future." paul boese.

Become: Become good neighbors. Don't start trouble. Be respectful. Request the same, & be patient.

Two: Two ears, one mouth -- there's a good reason we're made this way. Listen twice as much as you speak.

Is: Is there something really bothering you in your relationship? Get a backbone & communicate it.

Its: It's never too late to have a happy, loving relationship! there is always the option to start fresh!

When: When someone you love hurts you, don't hurt back. Let them know the actions hurt your feelings!

If: If you make a mistake, fess up! accept that you or your partner will be perfect. It lowers tension!

Listen: Look partner in the eyes and truely listen until they finish pause and respond in a calm manner.

Never: Never shut out your partner or put them down! it will always take something away from your bond!

Value: Value the good times and one another! it makes little issues easier to dismiss!

"He: "he that falls in love with himself will have no rivals." benjamin franklin.

Feeling: Feeling accepted by your mate is life-enhancing & gives you stength in new or difficult situations!

Love: Love means: changing a poopy diaper when it isn't even your turn.

Love: Love means: not hitting below the belt when you argue.

Love: Love means: n ot staying out after your curfew because you know your mother worries.

Love: Love means: getting up for late night feedings because you know your wife is exhausted.

Love: Love means: kissing a lot of boo boo's over your lifetime.

You: You can't change them so stop trying. If they respond to a change in you it was you the whole time.

Love: Love means: agreeing with your son about how big his biceps are (no matter how scrawny he is).

Make: Make concessions where you can. Try to meet halfway with your loved one.

If: If you are addicted to a harmful relationship - get help.

One: One must repeatedly decide when to be flexible & when to stand fast.

Better: Better than any argument is to rise at dawn and pick dew-wet red berries in a cup. -- wendell berry.

Start: Start by loving yourself. Personal growth work can help. Judgement of others ruins relationships.

Do: Do spend time with positive friends and family. Do serve, do extend grace. Don't hold grudges.

Improving: Improving self gives you opportunity to improve all your relationships.

"Synergy: "synergy - the bonus that is achieved when things work together harmoniously." mark twain.

"Love: "love is blind; friendship closes its eyes." friedrich wilhelm nietzsche.

Some: Some cause happiness wherever they go; others whenever they go. -oscar wilde.

A: A bad attitude is like a flat tire, you can’t get very far until you change it.

Happy: Happy wife, means you will be happy too.

Real: Real magic in relationships means an absence of judgment of others.

Listen: Listen to your intuition. It will tell you everything you need to know.

Have: Have a designated date night once per week with your wife. Not allowed to talk business or problems.

“Smile,: “smile, it is the key that fits the lock of everybody's heart.” anthony j. D'angelo.

A: A healthy attitude is contagious but don't wait to catch it from others. Be the carrier.

People: People will wrong you. Don't hold grudges/ruminate. Take the high road and sleep better at night.

Recognition,: Recognition, care, love and respect with heart are the basic blocks of human relationship. Remember.

If: If you really want someone to listen to you, first hear what they are saying (listen to them!).

Talking:Words: Talking: words are so powerful for improving or destroying a relationship. In seconds, not years.

Improve: Improve trust by keeping your word, every time.

Be: Be honest, even when it embarrasses you. Don't embarrass others.

For: To improve your relationship, make time for frequent, clear communication, healthy romance, and relaxation.

Don't: Don't judge those who try & fail. Judge those who fail to try!

Give: Give the benefit of the doubt to your spouse. It's unlikely they meant to hurt your feelings.

Happiness: Happiness is a grateful spirit, an optimistic attitude, & a heart full of love !.

Taking: Taking care of yourself -- including stopping smoking -- fosters your sense of well-being.

Before: Before you sneak to the patio to smoke at a restaurant, consider the effect on people dining there.

The: The most important thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother.

Don't: Don't forget how to use the phone, talk to, meet with friends to feel more connected and less lonely.

Grandparents: Grandparents must learn to support their adult children's parenting decisions.

Discuss: Instead of arguing with partner, discuss issues calmly.

"Kindness: "kindness is in our power, even when fondness is not." samuel johnson.

No: No one is a mind reader. To avoid conflict, don't assume you know what your partner wants or needs.

Don't: Don't try to impress others; u create the best impression when u show others your honest self.

I: I can trust my friends. These people force me to examine myself, encourage me to grow. -- cher.

Listen: Listen carefully to what your friends say and let them finish their thoughts, do not interrupt.

Listening: Listening is an art form that ladies have perfected. Gentleman, take note.

Criticism: Criticism must be used lightly. A gentle wind kindles, but a strong wind kills the fire.

One: One of the most beautiful qualities of true friendship is to understand and to be understood.

We're: We're apt to forget that children watch examples better than they listen to preaching. Roy l. Smith.

Keep: Keep your eyes wide open before marriage, half shut afterwards.

Keep: Things fresh and new with good plans.

If: If an apology is genuine (takes responsibility & commits to change) say "i forgive, " not "it's ok.".

There: There is no pill for anger management. Just cognitive behavior therapy and hard work.

Family: Family therapy is 1 of the best ways 2 improve family relationships. Don't wait till they r broken.

To: To improve relationship with yourself, we can't do wrong-even if it creates the right outcome.

Trust: Trust and love are the two basic pillars of any relationship.

Talk: Talk to your partner to discuss and clear any misunderstanding and respect the difference of opinion.

Never: Never shout or argue or physically abuse your partner. Politeness often rewards you in life.

Giving: Giving gifts, dining out, taking vacation or camping out with your loved ones strengthens relations.

Always: Always tell your partner how much you love. Nice gesture will do the trick.

Having: Having good relations will alleviate stress in life.

Spend: Spend quality time with your loved ones and enjoy the family time. It doesn't cost much !

Both: Both partners should value the relationship and should work as a team to make "home sweet home".

Avoid: Avoid using harsh words or criticizing. They act like wild fire to engulf and destroy any relation.

If: If you are facing serious issues with your partner, then please take part in group counselling.

Never: Never break your promise. Never lie to your partner.

Live: Live a normal, realistic and simple life. Don't make it surreal like in hollywood or realty shows.

Sometimes: Sometimes giving 'personal space' to your partner, does miracle to improve relationship.

Every: Every day brings new sunrise. Start your day with a smile and some nice gesture for your partner.

Accept: Accept your mistake or wrong doing. It will change an argument into trust and bonding.

“There: “there will be more wars until men grow brave enough to stop them” anonymous.

"Gratitude: "gratitude is the fairest blossom which springs from the soul." henry ward beecher.

Success: Success means know when to speak and when to sit down, hug, and stay silent.

“Do: “do not judge your friend until you stand in his place”.

Courage: Courage is what it takes to stand up ; speak; courage is also what it takes to sit down ; listen wc.

"Men's: "men's minds are too ready to excuse guilt in themselves." livy.

When: When you say yes to others, make sure you are not saying no to yourself. --paulo coelho.

Consider: Consider a life coach rather than a counselor. Learn to respond differently.

Do: Do you say thank you each time your spouse makes a meal?

Love: Love and forgiveness work hand in hand..

Broken: Broken hearts are what give us strength, understanding, ; compassion..

The: The "divide ; conquer" approach adds stress ; strains relationships. When parenting, do it together!