Can i tell me how i can convince my mom to get me checked for adhd?

ADHD Diagnosis...: Most psychologists can diagnose adhd in adults without doing psychological testing. Find a therapist who specializes in adhd ; get an evaluation. There are also self report scales who adult adhd self report scales. Once you have a clear diagnosis speak with your mother. At 44 years of age, you can take care of yourself and manage the add on your own, regardless of what your mother thinks.