Im in my twenty but im still so scared of my parents. i feel as if i walk on egg eggshells to please them fearing they will lose their tempers. why?

Fear of Parents: Not knowing your childhood history i would suggest consulting a psychologist for help in sorting out your fears. Please consult your state psychological association for a psychologist in your area.

Conditioning: You have been conditioned to do this. By your description it sounds as if one or both of your parents may have a personality disorder. I would recommend you see a therapist to work through these issues. I would also recommend that you read a book entitled "walking on eggshells" by paul mason. This should be very helpful to you.