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What to do if i want to become a chef but i fear that my parents will be ashame of me?

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Dr. Barbara Lavi answered

Specializes in Clinical Psychology

It is your life : You will need to be happy doing whatever profession you choose, not your parents. Follow your passion and they will see that you are happy soon enough!

Answered 6/22/2014

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Dr. Bernard Seif answered

Specializes in Clinical Psychology

Ultimately we all: need to be true to ourselves. It is probable that you have generalized concerns about your parent's feelings for you, not just in this case. Make choices that are consistent w/who you are. It takes courage but you can do it. Bon apitite!

Dr Lewis agreed

Answered 8/4/2014

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