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A 21-year-old male asked:

Im with my girl and i cant finish meaning i cant cum in her and sometimes my dick goes soft. do you think if i buy those sprays that supposedly makes your penis hard for a good time i can cum in her stay hard? do you think that will work?

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Dr. Leslie Leighton
Internal Medicine 38 years experience
Are you taking any medications that might affect your ability to perform? If so that might be the cause. If not would see your PCP for evaluation and treatment of this issue. There are treatments but you will need to be evaluated first.
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Dr. Birendra Tandan
Urology 35 years experience
There is no spray that can make you harder than you are. It only reduces the senstion to help people with premature ejaculation. It is best for you two to try patience and other methods and if they do not work see a sex therapist.
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