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A 21-year-old male asked:

Im with my girl and i can't finish meaning i can't cum in her and sometimes my dick goes soft. do you think if i buy those sprays that supposedly makes your penis hard for a good time i can cum in her stay hard? and no i dont take medication?

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Dr. Donald Colantino
Internal Medicine 62 years experience
You're experiencing a type of erectile dysfunction and delayed ejaculation but I doubt you have a.medical problem. I recommend being seen at a men's sexual health clinic for evaluation and advice. You could consult a urologist instead though.
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Dr. Birendra Tandan
Urology 35 years experience
Your symptoms are not the ones to be treated by the sprays you mention. The are for premature ejaculation. If you have good erections and can ejaculate normally when masturbating then all you need is an understanding partner so that you are not thinking of disappointing yourself or your partner when you start sex. If not better pl see a sex therapist.
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