I have hpv warts around the anus - tough, flat warts. unresponsive to aldara, week 10. i cannot afford surgery costs, living in south korea/difficulty speaking to doctors. do i wait 1 year for laser treatment in canada? will it get worse?

Skin tags, warts: "Fleshy" genital bumps suggests skin tags, not warts -- but warts certainly are possible. Hard to say whether it i safe to delay effective treatment for your anal warts -- the longer you wait, the more difficult surgical or laser treatment may be, along with small risk of progression to anal cancer. There are excellent STD physicians in Seoul; keep looking, e.g. at a university medical center.