Why do i feel an intense orgasm when i masturbate, and not the same feeling when i have intercourse?

Sensate focus: For some reason, you are focused in on the pleasure your are geting with masturbation. With intercourse, you have a different type of pleasuring and you are perhaps not focused in and maybe it is just a control thing. You are not controlling the pleasure or sensation. It is different and it is different for each person. Should this become a problem, you may need to see a sex therapist.

Both pleasant: No reason why you can't enjoy both. Maybe less intense with intercourse, but pleasure may last longer in form of foreplay, act inself and pleasureable touching and stroking after intercourse. U could see a sex therapist if this really bothers you, otherwise enjoy both.