Every time i go to the toilet i have to put my fingers in my bum and force it out. there has been protein deposits and sometimes blood come out?

Constipation?: If you have to use your finger to dis-impact your stool, you probably have some degree of hardened stools(constipation). A stool softener would be the first step, followed by a gentle laxative and/or an enema to safely remove hardened stool. Once you've cleaned your lower intestine well, you will need to see a nutritionist to find out how to change your diet and eating habits to soften your stools