I have had struggles with cutting, bulimia, and i live with social anxiety (diagnosed). is this ok to reveal?

Sure, but when???: In a safe relationship, these disclosures are not only ok, they are supposed to be shared. But 'safe' relationships must be proven over time. It may be 6 months of steady dating or friendship before the risk is minimized and you have enough information to trust that the other person will provide an honest, but not hurtful response.

Cutting: Meds and therapy together are your best bet. Get a psychiatric evaluation for what ails you, and what cutting means to you as well as anything else that may be going on. Then get a referral to a reputable psychotherapist to help with the emotional issues behind cutting. DO THIS RIGHT NOW. TURN OFF YOUR COMPUTER AND GO TO YOUR LOCAL EMERGENCY ROOM OR DIAL 911 IMMEDIATELY.