Sometimes when i get really mad and i argue i cry for no reason like if i was a child.. why is that? and how can it be controlled?

Brain Development!: Talking things through and getting enough exercise & sleep may be enough to help with the adolescent ability to recognize other people's emotions and deal with what may be normal "outbursts!" a "noisier brain, " as we say! but, have a conversation with your pediatrician and let him/her know of your concerns. There may be other, more troubling, causes & though rare, should be considered w her/him!

Rage: It's a rage reaction you experience. You need to know your limits and try not to escalate the situation to the point you cannot control yourself. You may recur to the help of a professional psychologist to give you practical tips on how to overcome this.