My daughter loves our dentist but is very scared when he does a procedure on her. he makes her comfy but once he starts she gets scared what can we do?

Not unusual for fear: Many children and adults alike have a fear of the dentist. Many fears are based on the environment, the unknown, false tales from others, etc. Nitrous oxide is an aid used by many dentists; others use oral sedatives. Time and reassurance from all involved will help her gain the self-confidence needed.

Some suggestions: Does your dentist know this? Has he discussed this issue with you and more importantly her so as to try to understand specifically where the fear originates from? Does he use "sweet air"? Which really helps make patients more relaxed. Can she bring an ipod or mp3 player with her favorite music to help get her mind entertained and away from concentrating on the procedure? Support her!

See a Pedodontist: A pediatric dentist specializes in treating children. Ask your dentist for a referral. Many general or family dentists treat children if they are properly trained and they may use a nitrous oxide/oxygen gas mixture to help control the anxiety that normally occurs when a procedure has begun and the child feels a profound loss of control.

Preparation: Prepare her ahead of time. Talk through the procedure w the dentist so that she knows what to expect. Sedation might be an option. And don't be surprised if he asks you to wait outside so that she doesn't have you as a gatekeeper. If she still will not let your dentist rx her, ask him to refer you to a pediatric dental specialist.