I've been struggling with terrible anxiety post molar extraction. i'm now on day 10 of healing. can i stop panicking about dry socket? i still have white tissue visible while the gums are healing, no pain, etc. is it bad i'm not fully healed yet?

Relax. Stop panicking. Stop looking in your mouth. You appear to be healing fine without worry of a dry socket.

Your healing seems to be progressing normally. Your chances of dry socket at this stage are practically nil. If you are concerned, the practitioner responsible for your post-surgical care is the Dentist or Oral Surgeon that removed your teeth. He/she can give you a personalized answer. A computer can't. And talk to you Dentist about appropriate tooth-replacement procedures and timing.