What should i do if my daughter has not made a bowel movement in a week. it hurts her to the point where she is crying and pushing so hard to the point where shes shaking?

Either invest in an infants' fleets enema to do yourself or take her to urgent care where the staff can do an enema for you. She is likely one who has had some pain with pooping in the past and has retained it enough it is dry/big and will hurt to pass. Sometimes applying anesthetic ointment around the outlet will make the event less traumatic.