I have been diagnosed with enlarged prostate. dr says 35 grams.did cysto. afterwards said wanted to do turp surgery.i asked about urolift and he told me might make my symptoms worse. all symptoms i have are uncomfor feeling in penis constant and urge?

You don't have a very large prostate but is there bladder outlet obstruction which would cause a weak stream i weak and prevent you from emptying your bladder well. You may be a candidate for urolift as long as you don't have urethral scarring. You may wish to consult another urologist who performs urolift treatment.

The procedure to treat a symptomatic enlarged prostate depends on many things- size , degree of obstruction etc. The size you mention may be amenable to Urolift. suggest get a second opinion