What helps stop the lipedema fat that diet and exercise dont touch? any medications or hormonal things that can help besides surgery?

Most of the time, exercise and diet if done appropriately will take care the extra body fat. However, if you mean the high fat in your blood, hyperlipidemia, triglycerides and/or cholesterol, sometimes diet and exercise may not be effective enough if you have certain genetic disease in which body produces a lot of cholesterol and or triglycerides and you have to take medication(s) for that.