My wife had genital hpv( learned soon) i did oral sex many times to my wife for one year. i have oral hpv certainly? i wonder that oral hpv still rare now have genital wart) ?

Vaccinate. Vaccinate: As they say, "The only things certain in life are death and taxes." Everything else is variable. There is no way to do a research study to assess how much oral sex it takes to get oral HPV infections. There are too many variations in the people doing oral sex, so a huge number of subjects would be needed. Where would you get the control group, the people who don't do oral sex? Vaccinate!