Is there a way to be sure i have an anxiety problem ? i've talked to my dr about it but he directs me in an condescending manner . if so , please help

Try this: If one struggles with symptoms of anxiety, there are ways to learn more about it. Try to remain non-judgmental and avoid labeling oneself as 'having' anxiety. Some may feel relieved to have a name and a cluster of symptoms with known patterns to label their suffering. That's a good thing so long as it self-limiting. Try this: http://psychologytoday.tests.psychtests.com/take_test.php?idRegTest=1597

Here's a reference: to do this yourself: http://www.psychologyproductsandservices.com/page2.html You might also check out depression, as anxiety comes along for the ride in 75% of major depression cases. In either case, you need to work with a mental health pro to guide you.