Is intercourse safe if you have a rectocele? there's no pain caused by the rectocele and it's only really noticeable when sitting on the toilet.

Yes: As long as there is no pain it shouldn't cause any harm. Level exercises maya also help reduce discomfort from your rectocele.

It should be.: A rectocele, particularly a mild one which is only "noticeable when sitting on the toilet" should not really interfere with your sex life; it is quite likely that sexual intercourse, whether vaginal, anal, oral....should remain as "safe" as before. You may continue to let your body talk to you.