Go to fam doc tries to feel lump with my jeans on i had to ask if i should remove them. last time pal abd pain over jacket while sit. time 4 new doc?

Physical exam: Neither of your examples are textbook methods to examine a patient. If you are concerned that you are not receiving quality health care, then it would certainly be reasonable to obtain a second opinion. If your concerns were reinforced by that visit, then a change of providers is an option. Your doctor and you need to have trust in each other in order to have the best therapeutic relationship.