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Please provide some do's and don'ts that would help someone get through an eating disorder.

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Don't: Don't ignore an eating disorder--it can seriously hurt you.

Answered 5/24/2018

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Don't: Don't fall into self-blaming or guilt trips. Cultivate self-compassion.

Answered 5/16/2018

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Eat: Eat 6 equal meals spread out through the day to lower the stress of unstable blood sugar.

Answered 5/16/2018

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Get: Get help early--you can't easily fix this one on your own.

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Dr. Peter Kurzweil answered

Specializes in Internal Medicine

It's: It's not possible to do this on your own; get proper professional help.

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Dr. Peter Kurzweil answered

Specializes in Internal Medicine

Listen: Listen to people you respect and trust. Food is not the enemy: the enemy is your self-image.

Answered 6/3/2014

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Dr. Peter Kurzweil answered

Specializes in Internal Medicine

Listen: Listen to those that love you; purging, laxative use, fear of eating are signs to get help fast.

Answered 7/9/2014

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See: Talk with a therapist. Eating disorders may signify an underlying psychological problem.

Answered 1/16/2014

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Don't: Don't weight yourself if you have an eating disorder.

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Don't: Don't listen to the negative comments your mind tells you! your weight/size does not define you.

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True: True eating disorders require therapeutic counseling for help.

Answered 11/20/2014

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You're: You're not alone, but please do get help.

Answered 6/6/2013

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Find: Find a doctor you like and care to share your secret with. They can help you move forward with a cure.

Answered 9/29/2016

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Dr. Heidi Fowler answered

Specializes in Psychiatry

DON'T: Don't - weigh yourself every day!

Answered 5/11/2015

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Dr. Heidi Fowler answered

Specializes in Psychiatry

DON'T: Don't - repeatedly check how your body looks in a mirror as it can lead to self- critique & more.

Answered 5/15/2014

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Dr. Heidi Fowler answered

Specializes in Psychiatry

Consider: Consider an eating disorder therapy group - you won't feel so alone & will improve coping skills.

Answered 1/19/2014

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Dr. Heidi Fowler answered

Specializes in Psychiatry

DO: Do - talk to your physician about how much exercise is O.K. Hyper-exercising can be a symptom.

Answered 9/29/2016

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Dr. Heidi Fowler answered

Specializes in Psychiatry

DO: Do - tell your doctor all diet supplements, vitamins, meds, laxatives & diuretics you take.

Answered 7/11/2014

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Dr. Heidi Fowler answered

Specializes in Psychiatry

DON'T: Don't - fall into the temptation to skip meals.

Answered 12/22/2014

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Dr. Heidi Fowler answered

Specializes in Psychiatry

DO: Do - journal about life events, stressors, emotional impact & how eating is impacted.

Answered 5/12/2021

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Dr. Heidi Fowler answered

Specializes in Psychiatry

Try: Try not to compare yourself to the women depicted in magazines - they aren't the norm.

Answered 11/6/2013

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Dr. Kirk Churukian answered

Specializes in Surgery - Plastics

Sleep: Sleep deprivation triggers overeating regardless of satiety, according to one study. So get your rest!

Answered 12/10/2015

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Dr. George Klauber answered

Specializes in Pediatric Urology

All: Myth: all you need to lose weight is exercise. Fact is that you also have to limit caloric intake.

Answered 7/4/2014

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These: These patients all need serious therapy with a qualified counselor/program !

Answered 9/29/2016

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Dr. Milton Alvis, jr answered

Specializes in Preventive Medicine

Ask: Ask for help. Avoid those with same problem. Seek out excellent friends without same problem.

Answered 4/26/2014

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Find: Find out why. Work with therapist on solving issues. Avoid temptation by others. Be resolute.

Answered 1/26/2014

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Dr. Nicholas Stratas answered

Specializes in Psychiatry

Get: Get in touch with your body: yoga, relaxation & breathing exercises.

Answered 9/10/2014

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Do: Do eat when you are hungry. Don't eat fast, give your body time to tell you when it is time to stop.

Answered 9/29/2016

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Surround: Surround yourself with people that emphasize independence and character as much as external beauty.

Answered 9/29/2016

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Don't: Don't let advertisements and others control your body image. Look for the good that resides within!

Answered 3/26/2015

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Live: Live a healthy lifestyle. Be happy with yourself. Get counseling if you have a problem.

Answered 9/29/2016

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Understand: Understand what your diagnosis is. Do not use smoking and/or alcohol to cope.

Answered 6/5/2014

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Don't: Don't minimize your child's eating disorder as a "phase." it can be life threatening, so get help.

Answered 5/26/2014

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Dr. Martin Fried answered

Specializes in Nutrition

Get: Get professional counseling early on - when you first begin to suspect it.

Answered 9/29/2016

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Listen: Listen to your doctors. Understand that this is a lifetime healing process. Don't give up.

Answered 6/1/2014

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Dr. Ihab Ibrahim answered

Specializes in Pain Management

Offer: Offer them healthy choices they can't resist. Provide them with a mixed juice drink before each meal.

Answered 3/29/2014

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Dr. Ihab Ibrahim answered

Specializes in Pain Management

Open: Open up. Ask someone to come along with you. Stinks to be alone.

Answered 9/19/2013

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It's: It's crucial for those with eating disorders to have a relationship with a therapist they trust.

Answered 7/13/2014

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Dr. Geoffrey Rutledge answered

Specializes in Internal Medicine

Resist: Resist urge to weigh yourself or look in a mirror, even when trying to gain weight. Unhealthy habit.

Answered 4/15/2014

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Dr. Geoffrey Rutledge answered

Specializes in Internal Medicine

Be: Be aware of your thoughts. Identify negative triggers like magazines or websites and avoid them.

Answered 4/16/2014

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Dr. Geoffrey Rutledge answered

Specializes in Internal Medicine

Set: Set aside regular times to eat meals with family or support network in a peaceful & accepting space.

Answered 6/9/2014

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Dr. Geoffrey Rutledge answered

Specializes in Internal Medicine

Examine: Examine your own attitudes, beliefs, prejudices & behaviors about food, weight, body image & health.

Answered 9/29/2016

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Dr. Geoffrey Rutledge answered

Specializes in Internal Medicine

Don't: Don't hide from unhealthy beliefs, acknowledge them as unhealthy and replace with healthy thoughts.

Answered 3/4/2014

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Dr. Geoffrey Rutledge answered

Specializes in Internal Medicine

Work: Work with family/support to identify extreme habits in dieting/exercise. They can see issues you may miss.

Answered 2/8/2017

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Dr. Geoffrey Rutledge answered

Specializes in Internal Medicine

Try: Try to avoid stressing and worrying about what to wear, it can lead to a backslide into unhealthy habits.

Answered 5/15/2014

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Dr. Geoffrey Rutledge answered

Specializes in Internal Medicine

Focus: Focus on what you like about your body instead of searching for flaws when you look in the mirror.

Answered 6/2/2014

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Dr. Geoffrey Rutledge answered

Specializes in Internal Medicine

Make: Make a list of your positive qualities. Think of all the things you like about yourself.

Answered 5/18/2014

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Dr. Geoffrey Rutledge answered

Specializes in Internal Medicine

Eat: Eat on a schedule. The body learns to ignore hunger, so eating on a schedule ensures you dont miss meals.

Answered 9/29/2016

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Dr. Geoffrey Rutledge answered

Specializes in Internal Medicine

Avoid: Avoid criticizing children about weight and appearance. Focus on healthy eating and regular exercise.

Answered 5/22/2016

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Dr. Geoffrey Rutledge answered

Specializes in Internal Medicine

Help: Help children accept and enjoy their bodies and encourage physical activity.

Answered 2/28/2016

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Dr. Geoffrey Rutledge answered

Specializes in Internal Medicine

Don’t: Don’t use food as a reward or punishment; such behaviors set food as a potential weapon for control.

Answered 9/29/2016

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Dr. Geoffrey Rutledge answered

Specializes in Internal Medicine

Acknowledge: Acknowledge when you criticize your own shape and replace negativity with positive self reflection.

Answered 6/19/2015

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Dr. Geoffrey Rutledge answered

Specializes in Internal Medicine

Trust: Trust your children’s appetites. Dont try to limit their caloric intake, provide healthy options instead!

Answered 9/29/2016

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Dr. Geoffrey Rutledge answered

Specializes in Internal Medicine

If: If you see troubling signs, discuss with your children the dangers of eating disorders or excessive exercise.

Answered 1/27/2014

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Dr. Geoffrey Rutledge answered

Specializes in Internal Medicine

Try: Try to nourish your spirit with goals and achievement. Replace the empty hunger for beauty.

Answered 5/30/2014

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Dr. Geoffrey Rutledge answered

Specializes in Internal Medicine

Prevention: Prevention programs can alter knowledge, attitudes, and behaviors associated with eating disorders.

Answered 5/26/2014

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Dr. Geoffrey Rutledge answered

Specializes in Internal Medicine

Learn: Learn to trust yourself, accept yourself, love yourself & enjoy life again. It can be done!

Answered 2/13/2014

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Dr. Geoffrey Rutledge answered

Specializes in Internal Medicine

Seek: Seek out people you find comfort in when you feel bad instead of focusing on food.

Answered 9/29/2016

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Focus: Focus on being healthy and on the good non-physical qualities that make you who you are.

Answered 6/17/2014

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Depression: Depression can be closely related to eating disorders. Addressing it and treating it in crucial.

Answered 1/13/2018

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Focus: Focus on the people that are a positive influence in your life.

Answered 9/29/2016

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Create: Create you own triggers when you stop eating or begin eating.

Answered 6/23/2014

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Dr. Thomas Namey answered

Specializes in Rheumatology

If: If you think you have an eating disorder - rule one: discuss with someone who cares. It is step 1!

Answered 4/16/2014

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Believe: Believe in yourself. Seek therapy and commit to it. Enjoy a hobby.

Answered 12/15/2017

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Have: Have self esteem. Don't keep to yourself. Talk to your family. Seek therapy. You are not alone.

Answered 9/29/2016

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You: You must talk to a counselor to determine the underlying emotional issues causing your disorder.

Answered 5/6/2014

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Daily: Positive daily affirmations in the mirror every morning may seem pointless at first but become powerful over time.

Answered 1/21/2017

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Dr. Ihab Ibrahim answered

Specializes in Pain Management

Somethings: Somethings difficult situations need someone to help you. This is one of those times. Ask for help.

Answered 8/8/2013

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Dr. Bahman Omrani answered

Specializes in Pain Management

Fennel: Fennel seeds can help relieve gas. Chew and swallow about half a teaspoon of the seeds after meal.

Answered 1/12/2016

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Dr. Thomas Wright answered

Specializes in Phlebology

High-fat: High-fat diets may spark overeating and diminish reward from food.

Answered 8/17/2013

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