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Is it bad to move in with my girlfriend when we aren't even 100% official?

3 doctors weighed in across 2 answers

No: There is no specific time to move in, just make sure it's after you two discuss and settle who pays for which utilities, who cleans what in the house, and what the rules of the house are.

Answered 12/8/2014

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Dr. Pamela Pappas answered

Specializes in Psychiatry

Not bad or good, but: Could provide many opportunities for growth . . . Which could also be painful. Moving in together is a serious step. It brings in all kinds of aspects that are very different from simply "visiting" each other. Many discussions about upkeep of the home and finances, plus day-to-day behavior will need to happen. When one moves into the others' quarters, control issues can happen too. Good luck.

Answered 12/9/2013

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