After whiplash in 09, i started getting tinitus right away along with these brain spells. left side of tongue goes numb and my behaviour changes 24/7 ?

Behavior changes: Behavior changes may be due to post-concussive syndrome, i recommend you visit with a physician and make sure to mention what type of behavior changes you have as well as your other symptoms. It might actually help to have a friend/family member with you who may be able to describe the behavior changes better than yourself.

See a neurologist: This may be related. I would suggest that you see your md and ask for a neurological evaluation from a specialist.