Sex with bf first time he tore me inside vag. lips we sexed again-made it worse like a rugburn. almost looks like a soar. do i have herpe no other symptoms?

Likely no: It sounds like an abrasion to the vagina, however, herpes cannot be ruled out without a test to confirm. If it were me, I would see a doctor and get checked. At 22 years of age, there is higher risk for STDs, including herpes and, more commonly, chlamydia. A quick check with gyn doctor will alleviate your fears and you'll be in the "know" regarding your status.