I have kissed 3 guys on lips and been fingered once. i have a pimple on the inside of my vagina wall and mono. do i have herpes?

Can't tell till: examined , yes possible. see your doctor to rule out herpes

Genital herpes: Genital herpes is a highly contagious infection usually spread through intercourse, but it can be passed through oral or anal sex as well. It does not sound like you have engaged in activities with a high risk; however, the only way to know for certain is to see your doctor for an examination.