I do not want to give my child 8 years old adderral medication for her hyperactivity. any remedies to treat that ?

Yes, there are: Most of these are really good things for all kids, so if she has friends or siblings - this will not separate her. Here's a link for info: http://www.healthcentral.com/adhd/c/849319/114478/prescription-treat/ A Child Psychologist can be helpful but you need one who accepts your wish unless they see a cause to convince you otherwise. I hope it goes well. Best!

Hard to parent: You can usually tell with a drug like Adderall whether it has beneficial effects or not. Using it on a day when you can watch the effect & the kid must hold to tasks like reading, studying may convince you that it helps. Using it only on school days would limit exposure. If there is no benefit she needs something else. Kids usually need talk therapy too, but it seldom helps by itself.