Can you bleed monthly with cramps and coming and going symptoms if you're pregnant? or am i having anxiety.

Monthly bleeding: Should not happen if you are pregnant. Only you know if you've had unprotected sex which would be necessary to be pregnant, but - Even if you did and you are bleeding monthly you almost certainly are not pregnant. However, in that case you really need to see your doctor to find the cause. That also might lead to a referral to help w/ the anxiety. Hope this helps.