Ftm transgender telling dad after the fact, what to do?

You Be You: If you have already made your decision then be clear with your identity.At the same time, give Dad space to understand and maybe even mourn the loss of his daughter-in other words, try not to take it personally if he doesn't adjust right away. Mostly, just talk. Communication in key. In time he may understand why you didn't tell him first, and why you had to go that direction. Be strong. Love.