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Please share an interesting fact about parenting a child with temper tantrums.

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Dr. David Liu answered

Specializes in Internal Medicine and Pediatrics

Ignore: Timeouts are effective, 1 minute for each year of age, when the child can understand consequences.

Answered 4/23/2014

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Ignore: Use planned ignoring. Walk away or look away. Attention reinforces tantrums. Don't give in to them.

Answered 2/3/2018

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Dr. Johanna Fricke answered

Specializes in Pediatrics - Developmental and Behavioral

Ignore: When tantrums don't get any attention, they go away after increasing to try to get you to respond.

Answered 11/27/2017

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Ignore: Remain calm, speak in soothing voice & focus on trying to understand what your child is upset about.

Answered 7/19/2014

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Dr. Deborah Ungerleider answered

Specializes in Pediatrics

Ignore: Any attention reinforces a behavior, so ignore the tantrums and they will decrease.

Answered 5/23/2014

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Dr. Jane Steiner answered

Specializes in Psychiatry

Ignore: You can "manage" temper tantrums by anticipating situations you know may occur.

Answered 5/24/2014

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Dr. Marshall Seligmann answered

Specializes in Pediatrics

Ignore: Temper tantrums can become more frequent if the child is rewarded by getting what they want.

Answered 6/2/2014

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Dr. Neigatha Graney answered

Specializes in Pediatrics

Ignore: Temper tantrums are a normal behavioral variant, and occur in 80% of 2-4 year olds.

Answered 9/4/2014

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Dr. Dale Kristle answered

Specializes in Gynecology

Ignore: Cold water from a squirt bottle will get a child's attention better than yelling or spanking.

Answered 7/24/2014

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Dr. I. Jay Freedman answered

Specializes in Dentistry

Ignore: Don't give in to the behavior, you'll only reinforce that such temper tantrums work to manipulate U!

Answered 7/27/2014

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Ignore: To reduce tantrums, don't fight them - acknowledge what your child is feeling! EMPATHIZE.

Answered 7/28/2014

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Ignore: Walk away, they love an audience to perform in front of.

Answered 9/19/2014

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Ignore: Ignore him when he throws a tantrum. Go to him as soon as he quiets down.

Answered 11/17/2014

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Ignore: Ignoring a tantrum is the most effective and appropriate way to react.

Answered 11/28/2014

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Dr. Natalie Hodge answered

Specializes in Pediatrics

Ignore: Keep in mind each parent goes through this stage with their child.They r part of the human condition.

Answered 12/26/2014

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Dr. Venkata Vallury answered

Specializes in Pediatrics

Ignore: Don't pay attention to temper tantrums, give them attention for good behavior. You are the boss!

Answered 12/31/2014

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Dr. Albert Melaragno answered

Specializes in Pediatrics

Ignore: The most important part of dealing with temper tantrums is to be as calm as possible and consistent.

Answered 1/7/2015

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Ignore: Tantrums are a creative way to get your attention. Respond to it continues, ignore it goes away.

Answered 1/5/2015

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Ignore: Ignore negative behaviors. Kids have tantrums to make an impression on Mom or Dad. Leave the room.

Answered 12/30/2015

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Dr. Alan Ali answered

Specializes in Psychiatry

Ignore: Set Firm but Consistent Guidelines! Not easy task but pays off in long run.

Answered 3/17/2015

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Ignore: Worth ruling out a sensory processing disorder by getting specialized OT eval.

Answered 7/9/2019

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