Feeling in uretha that feels similar to the urge to urinate for a year.problem disrupts sex life.only have had oral sex.urinalysis was normal,prostate was checked normal.ct scan bladder,prostate,seminal vesicles,external genitalia normal.what is this?

Please elaborate: "Feeling in uretha that feels similar to the urge to urinate for a year.Problem disrupts sex life.Only have had oral sex" -Feeling in urethra or feeling your bladder, all day or just only when having intercourse? -Disrupted sex life because you have to void when having sex or the symptom gets worse when having oral sex? -Only oral sex? Have you had cystoscopy done by urologist?